Wednesday 25 March 2009

Nexus G -Play Purple Unisex G & P Spot Vibrator





The nexus G-Play Range has been designed to give maximum titillation for both the male and female G-Spots. With a gorgeous silky feel and powerful long-lasting vibration, this toy is guaranteed to be sure fire hit with G-Spots all over the world!

5 vibration setting, powerful motor, long lasting battery life and high grade silicone.

Large Size

Technical Features:

Length: Shaft Height 3.15 inches (8cm)
Type of Lubricant: Water Based
Circumference: Shaft Diameter 1.4 inches (3.5cm)
Colour: Purple
Material: Silicone
Controller: Built In
Brand: Nexus
Him or Her: Both
What is it? Massager
What's it for? G-Spot
Motion and Action: 5 Vibration Settings



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Nexus G Play Medium Pink Vibrator






The nexus G-Play Range has been designed to give maximum titillation for both the male and female G-Spots. With a gorgeous silky feel and powerful long-lasting vibration, this toy is guaranteed to be sure fire hit with G-Spots all over the world!

Medium Size

Technical Features:

Length: Shaft Height 2.9 inches (7.3cm)
Type of Lubricant: Water Based
Circumference: Shaft Diameter 1.2 inches (3cm)
Colour: Pink
Material: Silicone
Controller: Built In
Brand: Nexus
Him or Her: Both
What is it? Massager
What's it for? G-Spot
Motion and Action: 1 Vibration Settings


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Tuesday 24 March 2009

Nexus G Play Small Unisex G & P Spot Vibrator






The nexus G-Play Range has been designed to give maximum titillation for both the male and female G-Spots. With a gorgeous silky feel and powerful long-lasting vibration, this toy is guaranteed to be sure fire hit with G-Spots all over the world!

Small Size

Technical Features:

Length: Shaft Height 2.4 inches (6cm)
Type of Lubricant: Water Based
Circumference: Shaft Diameter 0.9 inches (2.24cm)
Colour: Red
Material: Silicone
Controller: Built In
Brand: Nexus
Him or Her: Both
What is it? Massager
What's it for? G-Spot
Motion and Action: 1 Vibration Settings

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The Nexus G Rider Unisex G Spot & P Spot Vibrator






The Nexus G-Rider is made from FDA-approved brushed silicone to give it a delicious velvety feel. Firm yet comfortable, it boasts 5 variable vibration settings including continuous, pulsing and escalation modes. Suitable for male or female use, the substantial shaft is ergonomically designed to rub against the prostate of the male user or the G-spot of the female user, whilst the soft stimulation nodules set in the base create extra pleasure by massaging the key sensitive areas outside of the body.

The G-Rider is available in either male or female orientated designer luxury packaging and each one is supplied with a high quality, long lasting AAA battery.


Technical Features

Size - Insertable Height - 3.94 inches (10cm) Thickest point

Size - Shaft Diameter - 1.66 inches (4.2cm) Thickest point

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Nexus G Rider Unisex G Spot & P Spot Vibrator






The G-Rider is created for those who want stimulation and penetration in one quality toy. Ergonomically designed with a large shaft and unique base to hit all the right parts, this vibrator is made from medical-grade silicone, so it feels natural and effortlessly comfortable.

The anatomically designed shaft extends almost four inches down to a base which is highly textured to stimulate your clitoris. At the same time, the rounded tip applies gently vibrating pressure to your your G-spot, which will bring you to orgasm.

Designed in Britain and made from durable FDAapproved silicone, the G-Rider is battery operated and can be used with any water-based lubricant.

Technical Features

Size - Insertable height - 3.94 inches (10cm) Thickest point

Size - Shaft diameter - 1.66 inches (4.2cm) Thickest point

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Thursday 12 March 2009

Explore Fantasy Play Ideas with Boudoir

Coming up with sexual fantasy ideas isn’t easy for everyone. Just as some of us are more creative with writing, or music, or cooking, so it is with sexual fantasy ideas.

Developing sexual fantasy ideas can be particularly difficult if you’re like most people and were raised with more or less negative messages about sex, about your body, and about your right to sexual pleasure and the legitimacy of your own sexual desires. In the face of such adversity some of us are able to achieve sexual fantasy greatness, but many of us struggle with feeling okay about our desires, and as a result come up dry in the area of sexual fantasy ideas. The good news is that everyone can have sexual fantasies, its just that some of us need a little more inspiration than others.

Almost all sexual fantasies fall into one of three general categories:
sexual fantasies about the kind of sex you usually have, but with previous, imaginary, or celebrity partners
sexual fantasies involving submission and/or dominance
sexual fantasies involving unconventional sexual practices or settings

Think about your sexual fantasies as a creative reflection of yourself. You can also think about sexual fantasy ideas as a way of telling a story, one with a beginning middle, and end.

Whether you’re an expert at swinging from the ceiling vines, or a nervous newcomer to the idea of dressing up and getting down, fantasy sexual role play opens a new world of sexual possibilities.

Time Required: Plan your fantasy sexual role play over several days, weeks, or months
Here's How:
The difference between fantasy sexual role play and dirty talk.
Having a few minutes of dirty talk just before you start having sex isn’t the same as setting out a fantasy sexual role play scene. Fantasy sexual role play can take you deeper into another character and release you from the restrictions you put on yourself in your daily life. It means more preparation, and more risks, but the difference is palpable, and worth it!
Great fantasy sexual role play requires some forethought.
Most people start out a bit shy and nervous with the idea of dressing up as someone else and playing a role. Much of this reticence comes from a lack of preparation. The best way to get comfortable with sexual role playing is to get prepared. It’s hard to leap into action (and a loin cloth) if you’ve never thought about how Tarzan might sound, or what he might want to do with Jane, and all those vines.
Brainstorm about fantasy sexual role play: get your creative juices flowing.
Consider the following elements of any sex role play scenario:
Who do you want to be?
What’s the scenario?
How can you dress it up?
What’s your motivation?
What (and where) are the boundaries and the ground rules?

Who do you want to be? Pick a fantasy sexual role that feels right.
Cop, nurse, IT specialist… do some homework and pick a character that resonates with you. It’s hard to play a clichĂ© that has no personal meaning, so find one that fits. It is fantasy and you can push your boundaries while finding a character that you connect with in some way.
What’s the scenario? Setting your fantasy sexual role play scene.
Details can take you deeper into a sexual role play scenario. When you first imagine a sexual scene the main points may be enough to get you going, but the more detail you can add to the fantasy the more alive it becomes. Details can also be great for awkward moments when you don’t know what to do next. 

How can you dress it up? Choosing costumes and props to extend your fantasy sexual role play.
Maybe the most fun part of the preparation is costumes. As adults we don’t get to play nearly enough, and fantasy sexual role play is a perfect opportunity to dress up and have fun. Once you’ve decided on who you want to be, think about ways to add to your character and role through clothing and props.
What’s your motivation? Analyze your fantasy sexual role play character.
Now that you know who you are, where you are, and what you’re wearing, it’s time to consider the psychology of your role. Analyze your character. What’s your motivation? What turns your character on, what turns them off, what pushes their buttons or drives them wild? Are you dominant? Submissive? Do you switch back and forth?
What are the boundaries? Set ground rules for fantasy sexual role play.
Setting ground rules and boundaries with the person or people you’re going to be playing out a fantasy sexual role play with is essential. Some of these rules should be common sense and common courtesy, like no laughing at someone, and no judging each other in the moment. Other rules will take some thought and good communication.
Practice makes perfect. Use masturbation to explore fantasy sexual role play.
When we think of fantasy sexual role playing we usually imagine it involves at least two people. But masturbation offers some of the most fertile ground for developing sexual fantasy scenes. When we’re masturbating we are less likely to censor our thoughts and feelings. 


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Boudoir Sex Tips For Men

1 There’s no substitute for excitement. The range of lubricants on the market can add slip and slide, but should never be used as a short cut.

2 There’s more to sex than pushing the right button. Men have discovered that the key to female orgasm is clitoral stimulation, and many now rub the lamp rather than poking around inside it. The upside is that women are climaxing more often but the increase in emphasis on genital manipulation has made for some very mechanical sex. Going straight to the erogenous zones is the equivalent of fast forward. Men who focus on left breast, right breast, genitals, reduce their partner to a set of body parts.

3 Though clitoral orgasm is easy to achieve, most women want to experience penetrative orgasm. Intercourse is the ultimate connection between man and woman and the sensation of fullness that it creates is intensely pleasurable.

4 Women are slow burners. They take longer to become aroused and get as much pleasure, if not more, out of tenderness, kissing and cuddling. Though quickie sex has its place, for women on the whole, the longer sex takes, the better it feels. If arousal is allowed to build gradually, it floods the whole body rather than being confined to the genital area and a delayed orgasm is infinitely more powerful than an orgasm induced by five minutes of digital manipulation.

5 Sexual gymnastics are often distracting. Chopping and changing positions and techniques can make a woman’s sexual excitement plummet.

6 Thrusting for hours without climaxing doesn’t make you a stud muffin. It does make the vagina numb and sore.

7 Don’t assume your partner is comfortable in her own skin. A survey of 3,500 British women, by the bathroom equipment company SHUC, found that one woman in ten feels so embarrassed about her body that she turns the lights out before taking off her clothes. The average woman still spends a lot of time every day beating herself up about her weight and looks. Nakedness increases that vulnerability, so be sensitive to her insecurities and, if you think that your partner looks great, for God’s sake tell her.

8 Be polite. Never nudge your partner’s head towards your nether regions. During fellatio don’t thrust into your partner’s mouth, don’t hold the side of her head – and definitely warn her when you think you are going to come. With regard to orgasm, always operate a ladies-first policy.

9 Put a little X in your sex. Watching steamy movies with your partner will increase the chance that you will have sex.

10 Remember to take your socks off!!

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Wednesday 11 March 2009

Loss of Libido

Unfortunately it’s true….. it is very common for long-time partners to become less attracted to each other over time - it is also much more common in women rather than men.

It is estimated that at any one time, several hundred thousand women in Britain are troubled by lack of libido. Fortunately, for many women, it is only a temporary phenomenon. Some will get over it by themselves - and a lot more can be helped by expert medical or psychosexual advice.

A recent study indicates that by age 30, three-quarters of women are either married or living with someone, but they are starting to have “partnered sex” less often than in their 20's. In their 30's, more women are having sex with a partner a few times a month, and fewer are having sex a few times a week. By the time they reach their 40's, this disparity more than doubles.

There is a theory that the brain has evolved three mating drives:
Lust - the craving for sexual gratification;
Romantic love - a focused attention on another
Attachment - the feelings of calm and security with a long-term partner.

Each drive travels along a different pathway. Lust is associated with testosterone in both men and women. Romantic love is linked with the natural stimulant dopamine, and feelings of attachment are produced primarily by the hormones oxytocin and vasopressin, which at elevated levels can actually suppress the circuits for lust.

The menopause can also have a significant effect on our libido. The desire to be sexual, takes practice, and it often goes away when you're distracted by life's challenges, or physical health changes. Psychological causes are also very common. It's entirely understandable that when a woman is having a bad time emotionally, she may lose interest in sex. These causes may include depression, stress, and overwork.

Fortunately, libido is an elastic state of being that can be invited back into your life. It's also true that you can enjoy pleasurable sex without having a strong libido. Orgasm gels and Clit Sucker pumps can help stimulate the clitoris which inturn can enhance feeling and arousal. Rosie King, MD writes: "Desire and arousal are two separate components, and are run by different parts of the brain ... it is much easier to be turned on if you start with a high level of desire. But even if initially you feel sexually uninterested, if your partner helps to warm you up ... you can enjoy a very pleasurable sexual experience ... including high levels of arousal and orgasm." There are various products on the market to help stimulate the atmosphere to assist with arousal. Room odourisers such as Aroma Mist we have found helpful. There are also Edible Massage Balms which can create intense sensations during foreplay.

If you are a woman who is suffering from lack of desire, there is no ‘magic cure’, although it’s clear that the big pharmaceutical companies are desperately searching for a drug that will turn women on! Herbal Viagra for Women and hormones are often suggested as a miracle remedy, particularly the male sex hormone testosterone.

To sum up…..
If you feel that you have lost the drive and passion for a fulfilling sexual relationship, you need to understand what’s causing the issue, and then take appropriate action. You may need the aid of expert help from professional councillors. More important than any 'magic' remedy is to have the support and understanding of a partner who wants to help you defeat the problem. A high proportion of women do achieve a return to normal libido.

Sometimes a sensual massage with warm oils, Lotions and candles help with relaxation, therefore introducing gentle contact slowly and regularly can re awaken the senses and libido. Our range of Jimmyjane Candles Ceramic Stones and Beyond Lotions all work together to bring you closer together.

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Monday 9 March 2009

How to choose a Vibrator here at www.boudoir.es

How to Choose A Vibrator?
There's nothing quite like the simple pleasure of a good vibrator. However, choosing a vibrator can be anything but simple. It's easy to become overwhelmed by all the options. Which one will bring me the most pleasure? Which one is right for my lifestyle? Which one can I share with a partner? This advice section is intended to give you all the information you'll need to make an informed decision about which vibrator is right for you. Or, maybe we can help "refresh" your memory about all of the options available. Either way, we'd like to make choosing a vibrator as stress-free as possible.

What to watch out for?

There are a lot of vibrators that are made as a novelty and break easily so it is important to choose wisely, selecting from a reputable store with high quality products like ours.
Battery tip - Vibrators that use batteries often suggest taking the batteries out in between use… this is a good tip as it helps prolong the life of the vibrator and prevents the batteries from leaking causing damage to your vibrator.

What pleasures you?

There is nothing quite like the humming of a vibrator between your legs… but there are some questions you may want to ask yourself before choosing one. Do you want one that allows you to be hands free, vary the speed and intensity, with or without a remote control, small or large, and/or have one attach to a partner to pleasure you? Below you will find a review of some of the basic features of vibrators that will help you better answer these questions and get you on your way to experiencing erotic vibrations!

G – Spot Vibrators

G-spot vibrators are not only great for g-spot stimulation but for prostate stimulation as well. They are usually long and slim with a curved tip and make access to the g-spot and prostate easy. Many know that finger play can get tiring and these vibrating stimulators are pleasureful for a partner or solo experience. This is a basic sex toy that everyone should have!

Clitoral Vibrators

Any woman who has tried a vibrator on her clit will tell you that it is heaven. Some women favour stimulation to one side, while others like direct contact. Nonetheless, it is a sure winner in the pleasure department. Also it brings a women to climax much more quickly and allows her g-spot and vaginal walls to become more sensitive when used prior to penetration from her lover or a toy. Of course you can always combine your pleasure by getting vibrators that multitask… like the rabbit vibrator for more intensity.
One of the more popular clitoral vibrators is the bullet, which is usually 2-4 inches in length. These egg-shaped wonders can ignite the clitoris, labia, anus, nipples and head of a penis like a charm. Other lucky body parts can also benefit from these little hummers. Most often these pleasure eggs are attached to a multiple speed battery pack connected by a long cord.

Penis Vibrators
These can take the form of a ring that encircles the base of a male's penis allowing him to experience vibrating ecstasy. Others like this have an additional attachment that allows a male to stimulate his female partner's clit with a vibrator as well. For the adventurous male who knows how good prostate stimulation feels there are the vibrating dildos and slim models. All in all a lot to choose from for the man who wants it all.

Anal Vibrators

A lot more people enjoy anal play than you may think. While anal play is still something that some people may be wary about, many are enjoying this pleasure zone and loving every minute of it. If you haven't yet tried anal play, but are curious about what it feels like, you might consider trying an anal toy like a vibrator. It's a good way to find out if you like anal stimulation, without having to worry about being embarrassed. For simple "rim" stimulation a bullet or slim vibrator is simply heaven. For penetration, a Neo - Skin, or g-spot vibrator is a great way to go.

Controls

Basic "On-Off" Controller

This is one of the most basic of controls on a vibrator and is simply an "on-off" control found on the base or hand control of a vibrator. While this simplicity allows a user to not have to think about anything more than turning their vibrator on, it may not be the ideal choice for someone who wants to adjust the speed to find just the right stimulation for them or to vary the intensity during use.

Multiple Speed Controller

This type of vibrator such as the Good Vibrations G-Twist allows you to adjust the level of speed to adjust the intensity. Some people prefer the more subtle vibrations while others want pure power to get them going, thus having the ability to customize the level of intensity is a nice feature. Another advantage is being able to start out slow and advance into more intense stimulation as you or your partner become more aroused.

Multiple Function Controller

There are many types of vibrators and some have multiple features. For example you might find something like the Jessica Rabbit or Silent Spur that acts as a rotating dildo with the ears lined curved to stimulate the clitoris. Most people multi-task in their work all day… why not do it when you are ready to have some fun too!

Hand Controller

The hand-held control connects to the vibrator by a wire which allows one to adjust the speed without moving the vibrator away from the sweet spot that is being happily stimulated. These are very common on bulletvibrators and many people like them because they are small and discreet. The one main drawback to the handheld is that it is not recommended for water use and the cord can sometimes get in the way when a partner is involved.

Remote Controller

The remote control vibrator is great for partner play as well as solo. Imagine you have your sweetie on a wireless remote totally at your command to experience pleasure and increase it at the right moment while you move around the room. Whether you are stimulating the clitoris, anus or other lucky body part… this is a wild ride in the technologically advanced world of vibrators.

The Buzz…..

A drawback to using a vibrator discreetly is that they hum and sometimes loudly! Usually this is not a dilemma, but you may feel a bit self conscious about using it. There are vibrators that are quieter than others, and doing things like having music on or using them under the sheets does help drown out the noise. Bottom line, all vibrators make a certain amount of noise but a good rule of thumb is that a plastic vibrator will tend to be noticeably louder noise than a latex vibrator.
Examples Of Vibrator Types-

Love Eggs

Based on a 1,000 year old Asian sex toy, they are usually a pair of hollow balls and have something inside that rolls around inside them, creating vibration and stimulation to the g-spot or prostate. However, they are now available with vibrating motors in them for an even more intense stimulation. Women have also used them to strengthen their vaginal muscles which enhances a woman's pleasure for stronger contractions during an orgasm and man's pleasure when his penis is gripped harder during sex.

Bullets

Usually 2-4 inches these egg-shaped wonders can ignite the clitoris, labia, anus, nipples and head of a penis like a charm. Other lucky body parts can also benefit from these little hummers. Most often these charmers are attached to a multiple speed battery pack connected by a long cord.

Erection Enhancers

Vibrating cock rings are unique sex toys in the sense that they essentially act as blood flow "restrictors". They are worn at the base of the penis and are designed to heighten and prolong an erection, as well as intensify orgasms.

FingerVibes

These are newer to the vibrator family. They usually come in the form of a glove and fit on two to three fingers allowing the vibration to come through the padding on your fingers as you manually stimulate. Those that have tired it for all over body stimulation including the traditional sweet spots of the clitoris, anus, nipples, etc. have given it rave reviews. Additionally you can get vibrators that secure to the finger. We recommend the Dinky Rabbit , Dinky Dolphin or Zingfinger.

Waterproof

These vibrators are not only portable and versatile they can be used in the bath, shower, pool, ocean…. well you get the picture, they can get wet! Covered with waterproof material these vibrators make ripples of fun.

And finally……

Remember……….. once you've whittled the choices down to two or three contenders, using all available information, it is then the time to cast rational thinking aside and pick the one that tickles that sexy part of your imagination. It may be the prettiest one, the kinkiest one, or the most comforting and familiar one. Desire and aesthetic are deeply personal and entwined; pick the vibrator or vibrators that speak to you.

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